i got a dilemma, if anyone bulih membantu, can u please tel me eh?
i'm working with this very nice family, setiap kali kerja mesti dia bg mkn n lynn sgt baik. The thing is kekadang tgh buat keje die pnggil mkn. pertame kali dulu, i mkn la ngn die. tghmkn bru tersedar 'alamak, mkn ayam x sembelih, ya Allah!' den blk, cuak gile, tny syng, n he sed,'try 2 avoid it nex time'. luckily deorng mkn stock ayam dicincang cincang kecil, bukan seketul cam kite, klu x, lg nahas. pstu, d nex time i pegi keje lg, i sed i was vegetarian. fuuuh, terlepas. wife die pun hidang ngn hidangan sayur2, soya dn ikan. n tetibe while furnishing some perabot i heard her say to her husband, nurul's a vegetarian dis month. n dlm ati dh menjerit jerit, TIDAAAAAAKKKK!!! macamane die bulih coem up wit dat conclusion entah? hish2,
luckily after dat event i went off to australia. minggu lepas i went to work, dlm bas duk pk, camne nk terangkn yg i eat halal meat. smpai umah, dh lepas vakum n all, tinggal nk cuci toilet, tetibe ank die pnggil me, 'nurul, we're having lunch' n out of the blue i sed 'i was fasting'. muke wife die nmpk kecewa, huuu. xpekn tipu sunat?
sbnrnye mmg rse nk quit je job nie, i mean, i wanna start at a different house,sbb rse family ni 'too nice', tetibe dpt promotion, cleaning kt umah kwn dia. huhu, demi menyimpan tabungan lebih, i accept. *sy mmg manusia lemah, tolong!!!!*
dis week dey nk g rotorua, dey ajk me, but i kindly tolak n sed 'i need to pay my fasting debts from last year *wink*' den dey sed, too bad u cant follow us. sebelum ni wife die ade ajk tido kt umah, i went for only one night, husband dia outstation, so she was bosan kot. n bout rotorua ni dh bnyk kali dia ajk. tp everytime msti i tolak. i have all this negative thinking tau. d worst dat could happen n everything, bile fikir blk kesian pule, tp nk wat camane, mungkin rse x selesa spnjg perjalanan nnt.
dey prepare food for my sake n ajk me wit their outings. sy ni seorng yg sgt negatif dn anggap ni stu problema, rse cam dh membebankn family nie.
ape nk buat klu deorng tny lg after dis, i mean if dey ajk g mane2? n cmne nk start terangkan pasal pemakanan secare mknn halal? i need the courage!! n shud i go rotorua??
8 comments:
tell them aje lah.
dont worry.they will understand.
bitau dia senang,kalo nk buat makan,seafood je boleh.kalo dah dia masak seafood.makan ajelah.ade org kate tak perlu tgk smpi dapur.minyak ape dia gune tu sume...sekian~
aaa.btol..btau je..mane tau die mmg gne aym halal ke..kan?baik sungguhh employer tersebut..
w : gonallyi?ahaks
salam chuna, cmni jer la ko ckp jer halal food lbih krang cm kosher y yahudi makan.
sbab ikt y aku tahu klo lah xder mkanan halal atau mmg mustahil nk dpt, kosher bleh la mkn.. fikh musafir marjon ckp cmtu aritu, UStaz dari MSD london jadik penceramah.
waslam.
yep.the truth always hurts.tp kalo dah bgtau,the pain will go.die akan paham.ko kne mintak maap gak sbb ko tipu die.ko ckp la ko tak tau nak wat ape time tuh..
sory madame,i was confius during at that time.. high fiveeee...
haha..bgtau je la..
chunna, jgn quit..
ckap je terus terang..
-wv- inuse
--bapak rr wv pun bertemakan post ko..hahaha
adzuan, kam, pokjak, aiman n syapa: thanx so much for the support and nasihat, i'll try my best to explain to them! its gonna b hard, but i'll give it a shot, need to construct some dialogues, so i dont get butterflies nnt ;)
ey. i hv been in the same situation last year, time kerja kat rumah orang kaya d parnell. huhu. the family is superrr nice, like the one that u hv, before leaving the house, they ll leave me sandwich ke, macaroni ke, n yes, some of them i cant eat. at first i just brought the food and threw it away at home. but the family is too nice, and i felt bad. it took a whole load of courage to talk with the family about me cannot eat non halal meat. at first i thought i was goin to be fired or scolded ke, takut dyorg feel offended. but it turned out quite well :) they do understand (of course i have to tell them a bit about Islam cz, yeah, telling ppl that u cannot eat certain meat, and have to choose the one yang halal do make them curious. huhu.) k, my point, huhu, jangan takut, tell them je, like most of above comments, they will understand.
just sharing :)
ps: if u did tell them already, hehe, good laa. :)
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